Natalie Portman Reminds Us Well – There Are No Little People
Collaborators aren’t born, they’re made. Or, to be more precise, built, one day at a time, through practice, through attention, through discipline, through passion and commitment – and, most of all, through habit… Like creativity, collaboration is a habit – and one I encourage you to develop.
Collaboration guarantees change because it makes us accommodate the reality of our partners – and accept all the ways they’re not like us. And those differences are important. The more we can draw upon our partner’s strengths and avoid approving our partner’s weaknesses, the better the partnership will be.
You need a challenging partner. In a good collaboration, differences between partners mean that one plus one will always equal more than two.
Twyla Tharp, The Collaborative Habit: Life Lessons for Working Together
With God, there are no little people.
Francis Schaeffer
Here’s a snippet of a scene from Sports Night, Aaron Sorkin’s first television series (Sorkin won the Academy Award for adapted screenplay last night for The Social Network. You can read the script of this Sports Night episode, The Six Southern Gentlemen of Tennessee, here). Casey McCall, one of the two fictional Sports Night co-hosts, had appeared on The View in the episode. A big deal had been made about the color of his tie by the women on The View. Monica (played by Janel Moloney) came to see him…
MONICA, A VERY SWEET 25-YEAR-OLD, APPEARS AT THE DOOR.
SHE’S HOLDING SEVERAL DRESS SHIRTS OVER ONE ARM AND SEVERAL NECKTIES OVER THE OTHER. IT WOULD APPEAR THAT SHE’S HAD TO SUMMON MOST OF HER COURAGE FOR THIS MOMENT.MONICA
Excuse me, Mr. McCall?CASEY
Yeah.
CASEY TURNS OFF THE TV.MONICA
I’m sorry, is this a bad time?CASEY
For what?MONICA
I’d like to ask you a question, but if you’re preparing the show, if this is a bad time, I can come back.CASEY
What’s your question?MONICA
What’s my name?CASEY
(BEAT) What’s your name?MONICA
Yes.CASEY
What are we doing right now?MONICA
If this is a bad time –CASEY
I’m sorry, I’m not very good at remembering names.MONICA
Who was the number two man on the Boston Red Sox staff in 1977?CASEY
It was Ferguson Jenkins.MONICA
My name’s Monica. I’m the assistant wardrobe supervisor for Sports Night as well as two other shows here at CSC. I think you hurt the feelings of the woman I work for. Her name is Maureen and she’s been working here since the day you started.CASEY
I know Maureen.MONICA
Can I ask you another question?CASEY
I’m sorry I didn’t know your name.MONICA
(HOLDING UP A NECKTIE) Do you know what color this is?CASEY
It’s grey.MONICA
It’s called gun metal. Grey has more ivory in it, gun metal has more blue. Can you tell me which of these shirts you should wear it with?CASEY
I don’t know.MONICA
You’re not supposed to know what shirt goes with what suit or how a color in a necktie can pick up your eyes. You’re not expected to know what’s going to clash with what Dan’s wearing or what pattern’s gonna bleed when Dave changes the lighting. Mr. McCall, you get so much attention and so much praise for what you actually do, and all of it’s deserved. When you go on a talk-show and get complimented on something you didn’t, how hard would it be to say “That’s not me. That’s a woman named Maureen who’s been working for us since the first day. It’s Maureen who dresses me every night, and without Maureen, I wouldn’t know gun metal from a hole in the ground.” Do you have an idea what it would’ve meant to her? Do you have any idea how many times she would’ve played that tape for her husband and her kids?
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Let’s start with the obvious. The Academy Awards gives out Oscars for a number of different categories – all of which point to the obvious truth there is no such thing as a good movie that is not a team project – a true collaborative product. It takes a lot of people working together, with great and diverse skills, to make an Oscar-worthy movie. So there is no best actor, best director, best actress, without a really good cinematographer, or screen writer, or make-up artist, or, composer, or…you get the idea. And the Oscar telecast is filled with such reminders, as every winner thanks people who helped him or her win this coveted award.
But, within each category there is excellence all the way down to the smallest behind-the-scenes bit-part. And it was this truth that Natalie Portman so eloquently stated. Even though one winner (Randy Newman) reminded the audience that reading off a list of names is “not good television,” Portman’s list reminded us that people — real people, behind every name in such a list of “thank-yous” — are the reason a movie is made well to begin with.
Ms. Portman thanked many people, but near the end of her acceptance speech, she added this (from transcript, here):
And also there are people on films who no one ever talks about that are your heart and soul every day. Margie and Geordie who did my hair and makeup, Nicci, who dressed me, and Kate and Laura Mulleavy, who designed the beautiful ballet costumes, Joe Reidy, our incredible AD, first AD, and our camera operators J.C. and Steve who gave me so much soul behind the camera everyday, you gave me all of your energy.
Here is the business lesson (and yes, movies are big business). It takes a team — a diverse team, made up of people with a life-time of carefully honed skills (the 10,000 hour rule!) to make a world-class movie. Collaboration, with gifted, skilled, trained, people, at every level of the organization, produces excellence – even magic. And shoddiness, anywhere on the team, can lower the quality all the way through the endeavor.
And for every leader (or, those with “leading roles”), take a lesson from Natalie Portman. Don’t forget to include, and thank, the “little people.”
If Stephen Sondheim Needed Help, You Probably Will To – Twyla Tharp On Collaboration
Something familiar,
Something peculiar,
Something for everyone:
A comedy tonight!Something appealing,
Something appalling,
Something for everyone:
A comedy tonight!Old situations,
New complications,
Nothing portentous or polite;
Tragedy tomorrow,
Comedy tonight!Something convulsive,
Something repulsive,
Something for everyone:
A comedy tonight!Something aesthetic,
Something frenetic,
Something for everyone:
A comedy tonight!
(A Comedy Tonight, from A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum; lyrics by Stephen Sondheim)
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It may not take long to make a really big difference.
A consultant who is the right consultant is worth everything.
Collaboration really does matter.
These are my thoughts as I think of the opening story in the book The Collaborative Habit by Twyla Tharp. The year was 1962. If you know Broadway at all, you know the musical A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum. When it was in its pre-Broadway run, it was not going well. The audiences were not warming up to the play. They had a sure-fire disaster on their hands.
So Stephen Sondheim and Hal Prince (Let me say that again: Stephen Sondheim and Hal Prince had a disaster on their hands – that ought to tell us something!) called in a consultant. Admittedly, this was a world-class consultant: Jerome Robbins. He had just won his Oscar for West Side Story, and was a legend in every sense of the word. Here is Tharp’s account:
No one was laughing. Not Stephen Sondheim, who wrote the music and lyrics. Not veteran director George Abbott. Certainly not producer Hal Prince and the play’s backers. And, most important of all, not the audience. (They were) fleeing the theater.
When a show has script trouble, it’s common for the producers to bring in a “play doctor.” In business, he’d be called a consultant. I’d call him a collaborator – someone who works with others to solve a problem.
Jerome Robbins watched a performance – and by intermission, not only had he analyzed the problem, he had a solution. Jerome Robbins offered simple, commonsense advice: “It’s a comedy. Tell them that.”
Sondheim quickly wrote an opening number called “Comedy Tonight” – “Something convulsive,/Something repulsive/Something for everyone: a comedy tonight!” – and once ticket buyers knew what they were supposed to do, they laughed. The New York reviews were cheers for an “uninhibited romp.”
The rest, as they say, is history. 954 performances, a hit movie followed. In other words, a consultation/collaboration that was a complete success.
Here is the lesson. “We are smarter than me.” Find the right “we.” Listen to advice – and implement solutions quickly.
And never think you know enough without the wisdom of others. If Stephen Sondheim needed help, there’s a good chance you will too.
The Stupidity of Crowds ( a reflection)
Edwards: Why the big secret? People are smart. They can handle it.
Kay: A person is smart. People are dumb.
(Will Smith & Tommy Lee Jones — Men in Black)—————————
I’m a big fan of James Suroweicki’s The Wisdom of Crowds. I really like Wikinomics: How Mass Collaboration Changes Everything by Don Tapscott, and The Collaborative Habit by Twyla Tharp. I believe that “we” know more, and can accomplish more, than any “me.”
But… there is another side to this equation. Call it “The Stupidity of Crowds.”
I keep thinking about this as I ponder the oil-rig disaster, and the Wall Street meltdown. I already quoted a portion of this section from The Big Short by Michael Lewis in a recent blog post, but, to refresh our memory (with a little more of the quote this time – note: Danny and Vinny were colleagues of Steve Eisman, one of the main characters in the book):
This is a fictitious Ponzi schmene. In Vegas the question lingering at the back of their minds ceased to be Do these bond market people know something we do not. It was replaced by, Do they deserve merely to be fired, or should they be put in jail? Are they delusional, or do they know what they’re doing? Danny thought that the vest majority of the people in the industry were blinded by their interests and failed to see the risks that had created. Vinny, always darker, said, “There were more morons than crooks, but the crooks were higher up.”
This has been called by many names: Groupthink, The Herd Mentality — but here’s what I think. When everyone says “this is true – this is what you can count on,” it takes a lot of courage – a whole lot of courage! – to say to the crowd: “are you crazy?”
For one reason, the crowd may be right. So, in labeling the crowd stupid, you may be wrong. For another, even if the crowd is wrong, and stupid in their wrongness, it may cost you your reputation, your social standing, your friendships to stand up against the crowd.
But when the stupidity of crowds actually does the people in the crowd harm, it really, really is time for the courageous few with sight and insight to stand up and say – ENOUGH!
Unfortunately, we usually only hear about the few who say no after the fact (like the Burry and Eisman stories in The Big Short). During the actual madness, no one is listening to them – the noise of the crowd vastly outweighs and drowns out the courage of the few.
And so, sadly, all too often, we are at the mercy of the stupidity of crowds. Not a good place to be.
A Quote for the Day – from Seth Godin
No comment from me needed:
“Almost without exception, organizations are run by people who want to protect the old business, not develop the new one.”
(Seth Godin– quoted in The Collaborative Habit by Twyla Tharp)
A Quote for the Day – from Twyla Tharp
I’m a big fan of Twyla Tharp — choreographer, Kennedy Center honoree, best-selling author. I’m reading her new book The Collaborative Habit. Here’s a quote worth pondering:
People are people. And people are problems. But — and this is a very big but — people who are practiced in collaboration will do better than those who insist on their individuality.
In the book, Tharp argues that collaboration — the ability to work collaboratively; “practiced in collaboration” — is a habit, a habit that each person can develop and master. Just like creativity is a habit (her earlier book). I think she believes in discipline; ritual; habit. Not a bad approach to life.
7 Habits – 2 Habits – Automatic Habits – I’m Thinking about Habits
Last week, Karl Krayer and I spoke at a book synopsis gathering at the La Cima Club. The moderator asked us at each table to reflect on the best “self-help” books we have ever read. Karl chose Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.
Just to remind you, here are Covey’s seven habits (from the Wikipedia article):
▪ Habit 1: Be Proactive: Principles of Personal Choice
▪ Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind: Principles of Personal Vision
▪ Habit 3: Put First Things First: Principles of Integrity & ExecutionIndependence to Interdependence
▪ Habit 4: Think Win/Win: Principles of Mutual Benefit
▪ Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood: Principles of Mutual Understanding
▪ Habit 6: Synergize: Principles of Creative CooperationContinual Improvement
▪ Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw: Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal of body
On Friday, I presented the synopsis of Switch, the new book by the Heath brothers, and read and spoke about the power of “automatic habits.” Change is hard because what we do “habitually” is done “automatically,” without extra effort… So the goal is to develop the right life and work practices, and make sure they are in automatic mode in your own life. In other words, turn the things you need to do every day into habits that you do “automatically.”
And then I read the article about Twyla Tharp, and her new book The Collaborative Habit. I of course thought back to her terrific book The Creative Habit. (I blogged about this here over the weekend).
All of this has led me to reflect pretty deeply about the power of habits.
It seems that people with the best good habits get more accomplished, live saner lives, and basically live lives that we all wish we could live.
People with bad habits have less productive lives, and we seldom envy them.
The question is: what are your habits? Are they good or bad? Which habits do you need to jettison, and which do you need to develop?
Which habits do you practice that make you a highly effective person?
The Collaborative Habit — new from the brilliant Twyla Tharp
In the first decade of the First Friday Book Synopsis, my favorite book — the best book I read — was The Creative Habit by Twala Tharp. Tharp is the award winning, Kennedy Center Honoree, choreographer. I realize that “best” is very subjective, and many would put other books at the top of their lists. But I put The Creative Habit at the very top of mine. It taught me so much. And I simply admire anyone who is the best at what they do trying to share with the rest of us.
Here is the last paragraph from her Kennedy Center biography:
“I have always believed a strong classical training is a very good foundation for moving in any direction,” Tharp has said. In virtually any direction she chooses, she has given us quite a lot.
One of her main points it this: life is made up of habits. Good habits, practiced habitually (that’s what makes them habits!), lead to success. So, creativity is a habit to be nurtured and cultivated.
Well, somehow I have missed that she has written a new book. I learned about her new book: The Collaborative Habit: Life Lessons for Working in this NY Times article, Tharp Is Back Where the Air Is Rarefied. (Yes, I have already ordered the book from Amazon, and can’t wait to read it).
A lot has been written about collaboration, like Don Tapscott’s terrific book Wikinomics: How Mass Collaboration Changes Everything. But just as with creativity and innovation in her earlier book, Tharp seems to approach the issue from a completely different world than other business book authors. Here are a few excepts (picked up from the preview pages on Amazon):
For some of us, collaboration is a superior way of working; for almost all of us, it’s inevitable.
I’m a choreographer who makes dances that are performed on stages around the world. It’s just as accurate to say I’m a career collaborator.
I define collaboration as people working together – sometimes by choice, sometimes not.
The brilliant CEO, the politician who keeps his own counsel, and the lone hero are yesterday’s role models… The real success stories of our time are about joint efforts: sports teams, political campaigns, businesses, causes.
Collaboration is the buzzword of the new millennium.
Collaboration may be a practice – a way of working in harmony with others — but it begins with a point of view.
As seems to be happening with increasingly frequency, as I read about this book, I had this feeling – I really can’t wait to read it!
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I’m not alone in my admiration of The Creative Habit. Cathie Black, president of Hearst magazines, listed “five books helpful to success.” Her list was published in the Wall Street Journal (Getting ahead. How to succeed in business? Invest some time with these books. Wall Street Journal, October 27, 2007), but I found it here. Here is her list:
1) Personal History by Katharine Graham, Knopf, 1997
2) The Creative Habit by Twyla Tharp, Simon & Schuster, 2003
3) Winning by Jack Welch with Suzy Welch, HarperBusiness, 2005
4) Never Check E-Mail in the Morning by Julie Morgenstern, Fireside, 2004
5) The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey, Free Press, 1989.











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